Hey, Upper East Siders. This one’s for the girls who’ve embraced their sexual charm and aren’t afraid to use it. Because when it comes to the dance between men and women, sex is always the spotlight number. But here’s the plot twist: the moment a woman owns her sensuality and actually enjoys it? She wins. Every. Time.
Why? Because men, sweet as they may be, are wired to crave sex. And women who enjoy it? Rare diamonds. Supply and demand, darling — Econ 101, but make it sexy.
But here’s where our queens get tangled in their own pearls:
“Is he seeing me just for sex?”
“Am I the bargain girlfriend?”
I’ve thought about this. Deeply. Chanel-deep.
Men will drop serious cash just for a shot at seduction.
Fast-forward to:
He spends less → She loves sex → She starts thinking, “Am I just the budget version of his dream girl?”
Wrong question. Because honestly? That’s not your burden to carry.
Let’s flip the script.
Guy splurges → Girl makes demands (as she should) → Guy wonders, “Is she using me for money?”
But when he doesn’t spend? She spirals.
Here’s the tea: If he does spend, she smiles. If he doesn’t, he starts counting coins, she starts counting red flags.
Darling, if a man worries about money in the romance department, he’s just not rich enough. Point blank. If he complains? Walk away with a smirk and a head flip:
“You’re broke. And I’m way too hot for this conversation.”
So ladies — make him spend.
If he doesn’t, don’t give him the goods.
Why? Because you’re the one who ends up with the heartache, the confusion, and the very un-chic headache.
Sure, you can say, “We’re just friends with benefits.” Cute. But what happens when he gets a new “real” girlfriend? One he showers in gifts and spa weekends?
Tell me that doesn’t sting. I’ll wait.
You know you love me,
XOXO, Gossip Girl 💋